ikev2: Add a new state to track rekeyed IKE_SAs

ikev2: Add a new state to track rekeyed IKE_SAs

This makes handling such IKE_SAs more specifically compared to keeping them
in state IKE_CONNECTING or IKE_ESTABLISHED (which we did when we lost a
collision - even triggering the ike_updown event), or using IKE_REKEYING for
them, which would also be ambiguous.

For instance, we can now reject anything but DELETES for such SAs.